Ladies, let's VALUE UP!

 

Don't tend(wait) for a man to wend(pursue) you into being your cashier, lend and send you money to fend(take care) for all your needs. If you pend(depend) on him for everything, it will surely rend(separate) both of you in the end.

Why do you look up to this man for your daily provisions? Please give him peace; He's not Jehovah Jireh! You stay idle with no deformity to rely on a man for all your wants and needs. Physical attraction doesn't maintain relationship or marriage, hence be resourceful in other angles. When a man constantly gives you money and you waste it on needless assets, he will be patient with you for a while. If this behavior persists with no remarkable change, he will start ignoring you, and finally, he will move on. Never say he has money; those are his good days. No one hopes for bad days but prepare for them by supporting him now so you can have enough money for your expenses and savings. Don't be a lazy woman, strive for the best for your family. Men have some reserved contempts for a lazy and extravagant lady. They give glimpses of them by overreacting on small issues and disrespecting you. It's an indirect way of telling you to get something doing with your hands. Be industrious in order to bring something to the table to support him.