Derby writings

  Don't join  forces to coin (fabricate) false information about people. lt foins (hurts) so bad that they roin (cry). Don't gossip about or backbite people, it destroys true friendships. When they do something wrong, correct them out of love. How do you treat this friend? A friend who shares secret with you, advises you when you are at the cusp of falling into a huge mistake, one who leaves nothing masked between you and is willing to help you whenever you call. One who will give out his clothes to you when yours seem damaged and old-fashioned. A friend who can give you food when for some reason you haven't eaten. Please how do you treat such a friend? Should you be part of the people who sit to falsely accuse, gossip and backbite him? Collating all the benefits and a blessing this person has been to you, put your feet in their shoes and feel the pain you will inflict on them if you do this to them. If you can't  repay or remember anything they have done for you, don...

  Do not tent (camp) your dents (teeth) because of bad vent (breathe). Be bent (committed to) on having good buccal breathe, so you don't repel people. Let good personal hygiene be your priority to help yourself and others as well. Don't you know that little drops of water make a mighty ocean? lf you do then why do you postpone moments and times scheduled for tidying up yourself and environment? Do it now! Overcome laziness and procrastination when it comes to putting yourself up and your environment together. Wash your clothes when dirty, bath and brush twice daily.This is an act of good stewardship; proof that you can take good care of whatever God entrusts in your hands because you're already taking care of the body and the house He gave you. Hence, He can give you more avenues to steward and enlarge your territory as well. Single ladies and gentlemen, how well can you keep your future spouse, looking at how you are keeping yourself at the moment? Do you sweep your room ...

When people decide to  nill (walk away) from your life, Let them Go! Do not pill (convince) them to stay.  Let God fill any void they left. Also, hill (heap) the treasures within you till  you are aligned with God's will (purpose) for your life. Every Chief Cornerstone was once rejected. Rejection is not a defeat, rather it's a stepping stone to greater exploits. Be a better person without them! Are you crying because of the people who chose to walk out of your life; work, relationships, organization or .... Can you explain to me why you cry over them? Yes, they did perfectly well in their season of your life and you thought they were your friends for life and will never turn their backs on you. But now what do you see all around? Unexpected disappearance and disappointment that you cannot understand. But dear, l want you to know that every season of your life brings it's own friends and destiny helpers. As they came-in in their season, so will they leave when it's ...

My dear lady, take care of the way you dress. This makes you rare (uncommon) and determines whether you are valuable or called a mare (foolish woman). Indecent dressing makes you look bare (naked) which signals sare (weak) men to come lare (feed) on your body anytime they want. Ladies, don't cheapen yourself that way. Dress up; spread your inner beauty and cover the outward. Why do you choose to deliberately be naked in indecent dress? Do you really cherish and value your body enough? That everybody can see without having to pay your bride price? Your appearance speaks a lot about you so henceforth be very cautious of the way you dress. Many are raped or misjudged because of how inappropriately they presented themselves. Know that you are a prize and you are deserving of a groom to pay that price to see your nakedness and not everyone. Indecent dressing also affects the people who look at you. It arouses lust and any relationship built on this feeling won't last. It mostly a...