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  Gentlemen, 10 questions to ask yourself if you're in a relationship. 1) What makes you think she's the one? 2) What makes you think she's from God? i) Have you prayed about her?  ii) Has God confirmed it? iii) How did God confirm it to you? 3) Why do you love her?  i)What do you like about her? ii)What do you hate about her? iii) Can you endure if she doesn't change what you hate about her? 4) Why do you think she loves you? i) Is she all over you because of your money or it's a genuine love? 5) Do you have boundaries for your relationship? Is she willing to stick to them? 6) What is your check list  to look out for in a woman? List and score her. 7) Do you have inner peace in this relationship? Or you are guilty of ignoring your instincts? 8) What is her vision?  i) Can you complement and support that vision? 9)Does she draw you closer to God or pull you from Him? i)Does she protect your sexual trigger or she constantly lures you? 10) Can she help you nurture...

  Ladies, 10 questions to ask yourself if you're in a relationship👫 1)What makes you think he's the one? 2) What makes you think he's from God?  i)Has God confirmed it? ii) How did God confirm it to you? 3) Why do you love him?  i)what do you like about him and  ii)what do you hate about him? iii) Can you endure if he doesn't change what you hate about him? 4) Why do you think he loves you? i) And what makes you think he's lusting after you? 5) Do you have boundaries for relationship? 6) What do you look out for in a man? 7) Do you have inner peace in this relationship? 8) What is his vision, are you willing to complement it? 9)Does he draw you closer to God or pull you from Him? 10) What are his plans on coming to see you? Luke 14:28   “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?  For one-on-one conversation deborahasare40@gmail.com Guys, expect yours next w...

  Gentlemen, in spite of the rind (tough) times and rejections you've received from ladies, don't give up. God will help you find  the kind  of woman your heart and mind  so desire, tind (ignite) her love for you and bind (unite) you one day. Guys, be courageous and don't give up too soon on your love life. God himself said that it's not good for a man to be alone. So don't make up your mind to be single forever because of the several rejections you've received from ladies. It being consistent doesn't mean the story will be the same forever.There is God kind of woman designed to complement your aspirations, purpose and personality. The amazing thing is: God knows this woman, therefore ask Him. As your life matters to God, so does your love life matter to him. Don't take Him out. Whenever you get a consistent burning desire in your heart for a particular lady, be open to your creator in prayer and He'll let you know if she's the one designed for y...

  My dear Unmarried Ladies, do not wite (blame) God in site (sorrow) for the relationships that kite (manipulate) you to bite (injure) your heart.  Lite (wait) on God because He is bringing a fresh relationship your way. Get dite (ready)! because this one has a ring on it for your traditional marriage rite  and your white gite (gown) wedding as well. I know you may have gone through series of failed relationships that have left a lot of wounds and scars on your thinking process and your behavior in general. But l want to encourage you that there is hope!  Don't sorrowfully shut your heart to love because your previous relationships didn't work. They didn't work because God doesn't want you to marry wrongly and suffer for the rest of your life. He had to break your heart now to save you from having to face any trauma or abuse you would have faced if you you had married the person you thought was the one. Now, if your heart is broken or your hope is deferred on your lo...