Derby writings

Guys, don't jump   into proposing to her because of her beauty and rump (butts). Rather make hump (much effort) to pump (gain information) about who she truly is. Don't be pushed to marry a lady because of her outward beauty. There is more to look out for in a woman aside her beauty. Get it straight that if you choose only beauty,you will definitely get disappointed. Know that as she ages,she won't be the same way you met her. The beauty will fade with time. Get time to study and make thorough investigation about the lady you want to be with the rest of your life. Your matrimonial home shouldn't be on fire just because you were ignorant about who she really was. The outward beauty won't serve you your food on the dinning table or wash your cloths, the inner beauty does. The inner beauty makes her a wife material. Look for the inner beauty of a woman;this beauty doesn't fade. This makes her know your position in her life as the head and respect you as such. When ...

Where is your fate ,if you sate (fill up) with  hate  towards the rate  at which your neighbor is blessed with pate (cognitive abilities)? In doing so,you open a gate  to bate (deprive) you of getting yours. Be happy, not jealous of someone or what somebody has. Do you know that the more you're filled with hate towards someone, the less time or free mind you get to work on  whatever you've been blessed with? You would never wish to go through someone's sufferings but will hate the successes behind their story. Do you want all good things in the world to fall on your lap and never on your neighbor's? This is a wicked behavior you should change from, else you will be pushed to do something evil to your friend. Don't waste energy and time with the pivot of bringing your fellow down just because they are achieving a lot. If you're being hateful because of what your neighbor has, you deprive yourself an opportunity of getting yours. Be happy for someone who has gone ...

Ladies,don't be a dill (fool) to mill (move aimlessly) into a fiancé's room, pill (undress) and lill (lie at ease). This will propel Him to rill (move) his hands slowly on you, bill (caress) and fill (use)you. He will nill (reject) you then call you a gill (prostitute). Do this rather; till  He marries you, hill (heap)up your values and respect yourself. I know the love is deep but don't present yourself as a sexual object. Ladies, sex doesn't cause a man to marry you so stop tempting the guys. Don't devalue yourself that way thinking that will ignite their love for you. Respect and love yourself, people will treat you the way you treat yourself. Know that you are the game and He is the hunter,no animal throws itself to the  hunter. NO! If he can't value you,let him go.  Never say when you have standards you won't get a man to marry. Let me ask you this question,why are stones around yet people dig  deep and dirty themselves just because they want gold? This...

Unmarried fellow, don't  pend (confine) yourself in relationship with people who make you  tend (look after) of them, lend  them your time and  vend (sell) your body to them for their selfish interest. Rather  wend (change) your ways,  rend (separate) yourself,  fend (take care)yourself and  hend (grasp) to your God because He alone can  send (excite) you your destined spouse. Why are you consistently falling for  vipers and scorpions? Life is too short to be spending your time in toxic relationships. It is good to be single than to be in a relationship that is constantly degrading you. End relationship with people who don't know your worth and simply want take advantage of  you. This is the time to know yourself, your values, boundaries and purpose. Singleness can be a burden when you have not discovered your purpose.Therefore cling to God and allow Him to direct your path into your purpose. Purpose when discovered can consummate y...

When you walk right  in God's sight ,He will lead you with His light  to ight (possession) that is tight (scarce) to come by. Are you wondering how you can make it in life?You may doubt though but Christ is the true way to success.You may be living right and seeing nothing change  but press on. It may seem He's delaying but actually He's Perfecting everything He is preparing for you.Trust Him and walk faithfully in His sight while you don't see any progression.This is never easy but it is a test of your faith,so trust Him. David always woke up seeing sheeps but He was annointed to be a King.What I'm l driving at? What you may be seeing now is not a reflection of where God wants you to be.There is something you are destined to fulfill,my question then is; can you trust and walk uprightly in His sight while making no progression in life? Dear, HE WON'T DISAPPOINT YOU SO DON'T DISAPPOINT HIM. Deuteronomy 28:1    If you fully obey the Lord your God and carefully...

If you are toiling  for the best but it seems you are coiling  in life, don't give up. When you are struggling in life for what you will eat,wear or a place to lie but your efforts are amounting to nothing, don't give up! It is true that most of your colleagues are succeeding in a dishonest way but you work hard on the right path.Shorcuts to a fulfilled life usually shorten your life.It is always the end that matters, your toil for the best will never end in tears.You would be appreciated for your countless efforts in the end so don't quit now.You may not have friends and relatives to support you in whatever you are doing but l want to encourage you that help is on the way so strive hard. Dear, STRIVE HARD ON THE RIGHT PATH. Galatians 6:9    Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.  Enjoy your day😊

The lobe (projection) in your tobe (garment) should not make you receive jobe (harsh) criticism from others but should be a  kobe (an acknowledgement) of your royalty. Why do you dress that way?Do you know that the royal blood flows within you?This is why He calls you Royal Priesthood,Holy nation,his perculiar person.Dress like a Kingdom Lady or Gentleman.Don't wait for someone  to treat you with disrespect because of your way of  dressing.Some vital parts of your body that will arouse lust should be decently covered.Take note that when you have to expose yourself to win someone's heart, that same heart will learn how to treat you like a doormat. Unmarried fellows,if you want to be at the palace,dress like a Queen or King.The King will always be attracted to a Queen.If you are wondering why you are attracted to the wrong people,aside your character,check your dressing too.The way you dress will always address you and also bring you people with similar traits.As a Kingdom ...

Your God will never fail  you even if people try to rail (complain) violently against you and nail (arrest) you into  jail  that you wail (weep) bitterly. Just tail (follow) His patterns and you will see how He will sail (move) you gracefully and hail (pour) down blessings; you won't have room enough to store. People will say all sort of negative things about you to disgrace and discourage you.Have it in mind that people who don't like you or what you are doing will make all ends meet to tear you apart.This is part of life that you can't live without.But in all, let God be the reason you are not quitting on the good work you have started.Be strong and look straight on what you are doing.Besides you don't need everyone liking you before God blesses you. Joseph was betrayed by his own brothers but this didn't stop the blessings which God has ordained for him.Keep on moving inspite of what they do.Also mind your reaction towards their  hateful actions because is the bl...

You will feast  in life if you are able to yeast  (rise) beyond any beast (difficult) situation and pass through the furnace of life that tries to reast (dry) out your success. Are you already tired of the race set before you?You will never get any reward in the middle of your track.There is always a promising end of victory for you.There is always light at the end  of the tunnel,so don't quit yet.Persevere through any obstacle that is limiting or preventing you.You are the pillar of your generation so don't give up now.You will be a shoulder on  which Giants will stand so finish hard.Dear, PUSH THROUGH YOUR OBSTACLES AND FINISH HARD!!! Philippians 3:14  I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.  Enjoy your day😊Don't forget to leave a comment✍🏼

  You will be idle  if God is not your idol . Who are you idolizing in your life?What and who have you replaced your God with?Anyone or anything you are worshipping aside God is not worth idolizing.It is rather for their own selfish gain which is not worth your time,money and strength.What God needs is for all perishing souls to come and know Him.He will make you find every available opportunity to make Him known to the perishing.This is simply why you can't be idle in Christ. When you idolize human being at the center of your heart,your heart will eventually be broken or get you disappointed.Therefore idolize God at the center of your heart and your life as well.He's all that matters.There is so much to pursue in God which would make you busy for the awesome crown.One thing l know;"The devil finds work for an idle person". Therefore if you don't want the enemy to find work for you,idolize God and get into the soul winning business which is worth your everything. ...

When you are overwhelmed with the issues of life so bad that you weep  in the deep  of the night,don't forget to go to The Living Well which can seep  through your heart to push away your meep (intense fear) and yeep (surprise) you with abundance. Can you imagine the resultant vector of a plant that does not receive the necessary condition(water) for its germination?A plant in its season without water doesn't blossom.Same applies to you;you wouldn't know the best version of yourself until you dig deep to THE WELL.Christ is the Living Well that has the overflowing blessings you need in other to nourish your body,soul and spirit.When pressures of this world is sucking up your strength,run to the Well for refreshment,He is the only source that does not dry up.You will struggle alot in life if you don't make God the source of your everything. Do you rely on His creatures for your happiness, approval and provisions?This makes Him jealous therefore rely on Him for your everyt...

Until the vent (emission) of your bent (talent), don't use your dent to ment (talk) about it. What do you do when you are conversing with people who are speaking with excessive pride about what they can do?I know you would be pushed to do same but please don't. Your dream would speak for itself in it's appointment time.The period between discovering your potentials and it's manifestation is a Preparation period.This period is for polishing your talent,praying about it's impact and connecting with people in the same field. Your dreams or talents will manifest in due time so perfect these giftings you've been blessed with.Your preparation would produce a corresponding manifestation,not your bragging.There is no cause to brag about what you can do. Also not all may appreciate your potentials and encourage you.People who tried and failed would find various reasons to prove why yours wouldn't be successful. Don't trivialize your preparation period.Allow your...

The word sorry  can be a  lorry  or  norry (vehicle) to the glory  of the worry  and the horry (unpleasant) emotions you are going through,and bring together a pory  relationship so you can write a nice love story . Are you feeling arrogant to say sorry to someone you've wronged or hurt?Or you are not saying it because you didn't cause the distress.Know that you should not hurt or wrong someone before saying sorry.When someone hurt himself,don't say you didn't cause it and leave them.Just say sorry. Sorry is a gentle and healing word to any emotional wound,so use it sincerely.It releases some physical and emotional trauma that a person is going through.If you deprive this word from anybody who needs it,you add to their pain.It turns away anger. If someone has caused you pain unintentionally and you really need their apology, talk to them politely about it and reconcile.Don't take revenge on such people,they are simply unaware.Learn how to feel pity and...

Do not let any gent  or lady tent (hinder) the vent (emission) of your bent (talent) else there will be a fent (crack) in your life in the cent  to come.Rather kent (push) yourself from their pent (confinement) and hent (grasp) the destiny for which God sent  you here. God created you to shine,rule and have dominion on this Earth.You are the answer to the prayers of your family, friends,your nation and the World at large.There are dreams you are pregnant with and destinies to fulfil.Therefore whoever is in your life that is been a hindrance to this dream shouldn't be entertained.Just imagine what you would do to anybody who tries to hinder you from giving birth in the labour ward.Whatever you would do to such a person,do it today!Start deleting some contacts,blocking them on various social media and parting ways with people in relationships that are leading you to no where. These people are not going towards your destination or have given up on life and want you to join t...

  If you want to peak (rise) in life, do not reak (rush) the process. Be patient dear, Patience is all you need at this point of your life where God seems blind on your problem.It is patience that makes the caterpillar shed off its cocoon to become a beautiful butterfly. It is Patience that enables the foetus to develop into a baby.God has to prepare the blessing perfectly for a matured person, therefore He takes you through His process to mature you.Know that a prepared blessing given to an immatured or inexperienced person can be a disaster.To prevent this,he matures you with His process.The problem is that;the timing on this process is unknown.The process may be difficult though but never give up on it or rush through it.God is never punishing you with his process.Are you waiting on God for your job,ministry,marriage,traveling,academic breakthrough?As you've prayed about it,wait on it.I assure you that the blessing will worth the wait.Tell God to prepare you prefectly for every ...