Derby writings

  Don't  tend (wait) for a man to  wend (pursue) you into being your cashier,  lend  and  send  you money to  fend (take care) for all your needs. If you  pend (depend) on him for everything, it will surely  rend (separate) both of you in the  end . Why do you look up to this man for your daily provisions? Please give him peace; He's not Jehovah Jireh! You stay idle with no deformity to rely on a man for all your wants and needs. Physical attraction doesn't maintain relationship or marriage, hence be resourceful in other angles. When a man constantly gives you money and you waste it on needless assets, he will be patient with you for a while. If this behavior persists with no remarkable change, he will start ignoring you, and finally, he will move on. Never say he has money; those are his good days. No one hopes for bad days but prepare for them by supporting him now so you can have enough money for your expenses and savings. Don't ...

  Do not lean (incline) your bean (brain) on mean (unkind) words that would hurt you. Decide to wean (cease) that act and yean (birth) graceful words from your mouth.  Many a time, we take for granted the offensive words we use on people. By words, one's life is taken, dreams are shattered and hearts are broken and chopped into pieces. On the other hand, words have blessed, motivated and inspired people to greatness. The decision on the use of words is yours to make. We are loved by our Maker to diffuse this love in our actions and words, therefore, why do we go about spoiling or tearing apart souls with them? Before you voice your words to people, record it and listen to them. Determine whether it would sound good to your ears and your heart wouldn't be offended by them. If you're sure they wouldn't be harmful, then you can go on telling people. But if you intentionally propagate negative and hurtful words, know what they will produce. You don't sow orange seeds an...

  Do not allow dicks (contemptible people) to kick  the hell out of you. Allow them to act nick (rude) because they rick (heap) a lot of negative energies which make them sick  and want people to wick (convey) on. When they pick  on you, don't give in, rather stay calm. People will offend you in this world from expected and unexpected angles. Some will be very brutal that you feel like arming yourself to fight them.  But dear, it won't make any remarkable change. Why do you think you can fight a mad person and win? Yes! they are wrong but don't waste your time to prove why they are wrong if their conscience isn't telling them. Let them be full of themselves and that's how you win. We don't always win by throwing up our hands in the air and yelling at our offenders, that way; we do ourselves a disservice because we are wasting the breathe and time God has given us to fulfill our assignments on just winning a conflict. Look at the populace going to hell and compar...

Set a meer (boundary) over the things you peer ( watch) because some are meant to teer (arouse) your leer (sexual desire) and veer (allow) sin to take root in your heart.   Do you know that you gradually become what you consistently look at? As little drops of water make a mighty ocean, so it is. Any little information you feed your eye, ears and brain counts. It produces any kind of fruit you sow in them. If you want to live a spirit filled life, you shouldn't be watching or listening to music that makes the flesh vulnerable to sin. It drives His presence far away from you. If you want to have a daily fellowship with God, create such environment for Him and He will never leave your dwelling place. You wouldn't miss God's direction because your spiritual antenna are activated to discern exactly what He wants you to do at every moment. God always speaks but do you hear Him? If not, then allow Him to occupy your space so He can fellowship with you. Dare to be disciplined and...